Sunday, December 6, 2015

Divorce in Islam ; Not Banned , But It's not advisable

quoted from Beritamuslim.com



Times have changed, this time a human life is diverse. Many of the people who find it difficult to get a mate, but do not lose many people who have had a life partner, in a sense has taken the life of a household with a husband or wife, but in the end they decided to end in divorce.



This sort of thing is particularly affects the lives of celebrities at home and abroad. Indeed, the lives of celebrities are often characterized by the phenomenon of divorce and remarriage with diverse issues. Starting from the really complicated issues that ultimately make the marriage that has existed for decades had to disband halfway.



However, there are also only as a trivial problem only makes their relationship became chaotic household and ended in divorce, but many of them are still old wedding whole corn. It's very unfortunate thing, and very regrettable. Sacred marriage must be terminated by a very hated by God.



In Islam, divorce is not something that is recommended, even if it is the one thing that is allowed, but indeed if it could be avoided. God hates divorce, although he did not forbid it. A husband and wife are supposed to be able to maintain harmony in their household.



In domestic life, indeed trials always come like water flowing. Starting from the ordeal makes the marital relationship is getting better, up to the trials that pair to be mutually concerned with his ego, respectively, and difficult to control, and in the end there will be a dispute.



Therefore, seyogiyanya someone who has dared to utter the consent qobul, then shall he also dared to bear the consequences of the things he had chosen it. Meaning he should be ready with all the bitter sweetness of domestic life, and not easy to say the word divorce, because the word is very vulnerable to a divorce which means it has ended the relationship. Divorce is not prohibited, but it is emphasized in order to be able to be avoided.



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