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Showing posts with label tips hidup. Show all posts

Sunday, December 6, 2015

Divorce in Islam ; Not Banned , But It's not advisable

quoted from Beritamuslim.com



Times have changed, this time a human life is diverse. Many of the people who find it difficult to get a mate, but do not lose many people who have had a life partner, in a sense has taken the life of a household with a husband or wife, but in the end they decided to end in divorce.



This sort of thing is particularly affects the lives of celebrities at home and abroad. Indeed, the lives of celebrities are often characterized by the phenomenon of divorce and remarriage with diverse issues. Starting from the really complicated issues that ultimately make the marriage that has existed for decades had to disband halfway.



However, there are also only as a trivial problem only makes their relationship became chaotic household and ended in divorce, but many of them are still old wedding whole corn. It's very unfortunate thing, and very regrettable. Sacred marriage must be terminated by a very hated by God.



In Islam, divorce is not something that is recommended, even if it is the one thing that is allowed, but indeed if it could be avoided. God hates divorce, although he did not forbid it. A husband and wife are supposed to be able to maintain harmony in their household.



In domestic life, indeed trials always come like water flowing. Starting from the ordeal makes the marital relationship is getting better, up to the trials that pair to be mutually concerned with his ego, respectively, and difficult to control, and in the end there will be a dispute.



Therefore, seyogiyanya someone who has dared to utter the consent qobul, then shall he also dared to bear the consequences of the things he had chosen it. Meaning he should be ready with all the bitter sweetness of domestic life, and not easy to say the word divorce, because the word is very vulnerable to a divorce which means it has ended the relationship. Divorce is not prohibited, but it is emphasized in order to be able to be avoided.



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Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Ethics neighboring Life In Islam



NEIGHBOR indeed one of the creatures we should glorify. Various rights be fulfilled so that a person who has Muslim neighbors will be able to feel the beauty of Islamic morality. In fact, not only that, not only fulfill their rights. Hasan Basri states including doing good to the neighbor is not bothering him. Do not do anything that causes disturbed neighbors. Even if such disturbing neighbors, we must be patient with her. The patience of course we do after we informed him that his actions disturb us.







For things that are had to happen, we must be patient with her. For example, the next door neighbor to build or renovate the house until it was noisy. While if we were to build a house we have to know ourselves with the previously expressed an apology. If anyone hurt or damage the building our house dressing. From Abu Hurairah r.a. also that the Prophet said, "Do not forbid neighbor neighbor someone else to plug the wood in the roof and walls to pengukuh others". (Muttafaq 'alaih).







Against neighbors interfere with any actions we should be patient. For example they have a party till late at night with musical frenetic. We need to call it up to a small child we could not sleep made. If after being reprimanded nor heed that's where we should be patient. Also neighbors who like to park any car, put the garbage out of place, difficult to pay dues, and so on. We must be patient with her. The main thing we have to tell him that respectful coexistence that we too will appreciate. Even if he did not appreciate the patience we will deal with it. By our patience God willing, he will be aware.

From Abu Hurairah also bahawasanya Prophet said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, do not hurt neighbors, either by words or deeds. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let glorify neighbors, and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let say good or if it can not be said well, let dwells alone, which do not even say that is not good. " (Muttafaq 'alaih). Islampos




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Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Four Key of Life Blessing

ALL people would like to be healthy, long life, beautiful life and live well. However, the journey of life is not always ideal. Like the saying, life is like a wagon wheel. Sometimes above, sometimes below.



Some people easily search for treasure, he is rich, but not a blessing. His heart was always depressed, the disease comes every moment. Meanwhile, there are people who every day are only able to eat and drink only. Sleep even just on a rickshaw. But God's glory to Him always give him health, away from the hospital and away from inner restlessness.



Therefore in Islam, Muslims should seek the blessing (baraka). Blessing (baraka). In ye Al Munawwri, baraka (البركة) means "gift of God that the good of human life. 'Medium according to Imam al Ghazali, blessing means ziyadatul khair," grown-added goodness ".



Below are four key grab the blessing of life.



Piety. Some people, it is still considered abstract piety. Although in some verses, technical operations, is quite clear. Like piety in paragraphs 133 and 144 of Surah Ali Imran, its operation is quite clear. However, in the context of the direct benefits obtained in the life of the world, foresight think is very necessary.



Operational piety in the paragraph above them are still spending (infaq) possessions in the way of Allah both in field conditions and narrow. Infaq in field conditions, it may not be as heavy as when in cramped conditions (very hunger for treasure). But, if you want to arrive at the degree of piety, both of them should be pursued.



Muslims who want to think, it will explore the wisdom behind the enactment of command seemingly quite burdensome. Let us peel slowly.



If you notice, every weekend, residents of the capital and the citizens of big cities in this country (predominantly womenfolk) very fond kongkow or shopping at the mall.



Mall like a second home very happy their hearts. What article, discount, sale, and sale of commodities to their liking, so it is in the mall though it would deplete savings, still they did happily.

While piety, not as short as shopping at the mall again closeout discounts and gifts. But, logically, practice in earnest piety will bring benefits beyond measure, which is not only the world, but also in the hereafter. But, again here the necessary foresight or rather the depth of thinking, so there is no power to keep patient and focused in life with piety.

Salah. The most basic manifestation of faith that will make a believer piety preserved is prayer. Salah physically in the medical review, it had a significant impact for health. In fact, praying in the core side, the communication media of each slave by Alah Ta'ala.

Prostration for example. Menungging movement by putting both hands, knees, toes, and forehead on the floor appeared to have a very good impact for health.

Benefits: lymph flow pumped into the neck and armpits. The position of the heart over the brain causes oxygen-rich blood to the brain bisamengalir maximum. This flow effect on one's thinking. Therefore, do prostrations with tuma'ninah, do not rush - hurry that capacity sufficient blood in the brain. This posture is also avoiding disruption of hemorrhoids. Especially for women, both bowing and prostrating to have tremendous benefits for fertility and health of the female organs.

Benefits in other movements, certainly no less good for health. Logically, the more often the prayer is done, the better our health. In other words, the obligation is true prayer is a command that God gave us to meet the needs of the human soul itself. In other words, who are reluctant to pray especially do not want to pray, then the loss is remarkable.

Alms. This alms empirical impressed reduce asset or property. But, intrinsically. For example, a mother who gave 100 percent of the power potential and the time to educate their children, almost certainly will have children who are intelligent, strong and pious and sholehah insha Allah. Compare with a mother who does not give 100 per cent power potential and time to their child.



Similarly alms. Alms it reduces the nominal or numbers, but adding on the other side, which in turn will impact on the nominal increase itself. Abdurrahman bin Auf indeed spend a lot of charity, but charity that is what makes kwalahan receive profits in the business she lived.

Therefore, it is not wrong if the latter term appears Giving is Receiving (giving it essentially accepts). After all, in the Qur'an, one charity or infaq God's promised reward of up to 700-fold (QS. Al-Baqarah [2]: 261). Naturally all requires sincerity and clarity of heart and the compliance with the guidance of the Prophet.

Giving Sorry. Injured, hurt, everyone feels must have experienced this. However, maintaining the same illustrations revenge with those who store personal foul smell in the closet. Impossible the people want to do that?

But revenge is not the same as the stench. Most people are reluctant to think and put forward his ego, preferring revenge rather than faith. Finally do not want to forgive, even if you can find a way how to do to revenge.

But, however, Islam does not want his people became spiteful. In this matter, we should reflect on the Prophet Joseph alayhissalam. He experienced tremendous suffering because of the nature of envy, jealousy and envy of his brothers. However, when Joseph became and his brothers came in a helpless condition, he forgave those who persecuted and his life miserable.

قال لا تثريب عليكم اليوم يغفر الله لكم وهو أرحم الراحمين

He (Joseph) said: "On this day there was no slur on you, hopefully Allah forgive (you), and He is the Most Merciful among the merciful" (QS. Yusuf [12]: 92).

We can see, what God acknowledgment of the attitude of the Prophet Joseph, the males forgive it? Allah mentions the story of him as the best of the story of the history of human life that ever existed on this earth.

Of course, there are many other important practice which is also part of the manifestation of piety in our daily life and that if practiced will not only bring benefits for both body and soul, but also the recognition of Allah Ta'ala alone mencptakan ours. Therefore, should we orient this life to become a person who built a family and community are cautious. *


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